Who's the More Romantic Gender, Men or Women?

Who's more romantic? Men or Women? Jess will surprise you with her answer! Also, she looks how at how women respond sexually to certain situations and the idea of female Viagra. Catch all of this and more by tuning in every Tuesday morning at 8am to the Global Morning Show with Liza and Jeff!

 

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Is Caitlyn Jenner's Vanity Fair Cover Just Another Stereotype?

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The Toronto Star ran a thoughtful piece on Caitlyn Jenner's Vanity Fair Cover today. Columnist, Judith Timson, critiques the sexy cover images and suggests that Jenner's image is a reflection of stereotypical standards of beauty. I'm inclined to agree.

Timson's critique is both important and thought-provoking and I share many of her concerns regarding images of female beauty and fantasy. However, I'm not sure I agree on all fronts, as I don't believe that "the way most women look" is any more impervious to cultural pressure.

I've shared a few (incomplete thoughts) about my conflicted response on Facebook and have decided to past them below. I encourage you to read the original article first, as it's a good piece and I hope that my brief comments below add to the dialogue.

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My thoughts from Facebook:

What if she doesn't feel she needs to undress, but simply wants to? It's a complex (and personal) issue and so I feel a bit conflicted. The suggestion that...

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Jess Discusses Anxiety in the Bedroom on 102.1 The Edge

press Jun 12, 2015

Every Wednesday morning, Jess joins Fearless Fred and Melani Mariani on The Fearless Fred Show to discuss the latest sex, relationship and love stories and trends.

This week, they address anxiety in the bedroom. Click below to listen and be sure to tune in Wednesday mornings at 8:40am.

This post was brought to you by Desire Resorts.

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Happy Endings Lead to Bad Decisions

Humans are so strongly inclined toward happy endings that we often make poor decisions based on recent experiences while discounting earlier ones. Jess stopped by The Morning Show to discuss how these new research findings can be applied to dating and relationships. She also weighs in on the reasons why Millenials are opting to stay single for longer. 

From EurekAlert:

"The study, published today in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, supports the idea that the 'banker's fallacy' - focusing on immediate growth at the expense of longer-term stability that would produce better results - is intuitive in the way many of us make quick decisions.

People's natural inclination towards a 'happy ending' means that we often ascribe greater value to experiences than they are worth, say researchers, meaning that we end up overvaluing experiences with a final uptick over those that taper at the last minute, despite being of equal or even lesser overall value, and making...

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Can Your Relationship Affect Your Work Life?

Support from your partner is one thing, conscientiousness is another. To have stability at home and in the workplace all depends on how conscientious your partner is. A partner who is conscientious boosts your productivity at work, lowers your stress levels and most importantly, exemplifies good behavior. Check out Jess' full analysis of a conscientious partner in the video below. Catch Jess every Tuesday morning at 8am on the Global Morning Show with Liza and Jeff!

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Job Posting: Brand Manager/Administrator

dr. jess' news Jun 03, 2015

SexWithDrJess.com is hiring a part-time Brand Manager with the opportunity for growth into a full-time position.

Duties include:

  • Management and curation of multiple digital media platforms
  • Administration of correspondence, databases & general logistics
  • Curation of blog content
  • Coordination of website and SEO initiatives
  • Development of graphics and presentations
  • Recruitment, training and overseeing of interns & contract staff as needed
  • Newsletter and promotional material curation
  • Scheduling and coordination of meetings, public relation events and appearances
  • Basic bookkeeping functions (e.g. invoicing, preparing expense reports)
  • Negotiation and management of partnerships, sponsorships and contracts with third party brands
  • Event coordination
  • Personal executive assistant duties

Qualifications Required:

  • Thorough knowledge of digital media platforms. Photoshop/Illustrator, Prezi, WordPress and iMovie/Final Cut experience preferred.
  • Exceptional...
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Designer vaginas: Plastic surgeryā€™s misogynistic new trend

sex news uncategorized Jun 02, 2015

By Arena Thomson

Women are undergoing below-the-belt cosmetic surgery at a growing rate in a quest for “perfect” genitalia. Labiaplasty consists of reducing the amount of tissue in either the labia majora or labia minora through surgery. Many women are turning to labiaplasty as an answer to their feelings of insecurity about their vulvas, some of whom have very little knowledge about the risks associated with the procedure.

This disturbing trend points to the larger issue of our patriarchal society’s tendency to police women’s bodies, and to instill unease in them over any divergence from the norm. Plastic surgeons who choose to perform labiaplasty often do nothing to assuage these women’s anxieties about their bodies, treating natural variations in vulvas as aberrations that can be “fixed”.

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In spite of a small number of labiaplasty surgeries executed to alleviate physical discomfort, the prevailing reason for this surgery is far more...

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Do the rich have better sex? Dr. Jess in Post City Magazines

jess' articles May 28, 2015

Every month, Jess contributes to Post City Magazines, an independently owned Toronto-based publisher of seven magazines that are distributed monthly  in Toronto and the Greater Toronto Area. This month, she addresses the sticky subjects of sex and money.

Click on the image below to find out how often the average couple has sex and learn more about how their bank account plays a role in the bedroom. Full story available here.

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Does Love at First Sight Actually Exist?

On this segment of the Global Morning Show, Jess examines the two themes of "love at first sight" - lust and attachment. What separates the two is the ability and willingness to commit. She also looks at the idea of everlasting love, and what changes it can have on a long-term couple from a mental standpoint. Tune in every Tuesday morning at 8am on the Global Morning Show with Jess, Liza and Jeff!

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A Newbie's First Experience at Desire Resorts

As you probably know, I visit Desire Resorts in Mexico several times per year to facilitate couples workshops, host book signings and recharge my batteries to the sound of the ocean breeze. And if you've ever heard me speak, you know that I always return with a handful of stories, anecdotes and lessons (like The Claudia AKA The Goddess) drawn from my interactions with the couples I meet at the resorts. Not surprisingly, I receive more questions about Desire Resorts than almost any other topic (e.g. What happens there? Is everyone naked? Do you get naked? Do you see people having sex in public?), so I've recruited a "newbie" guest to answer some questions about her first visit.

Julie, a Canadian Public Relations specialist, was thrilled to share her insights and experience.

Jess: What prompted you to visit Desire Resorts in the first place?

Julie: I have always been a very open-minded, sexual being. It took years as an adult to discover who I am, and to...

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