OBGYN Dr. Nicole E. Williams joins us to answer listener questions, discuss sexual wellness and weigh in on how to:

• Have sex on your period (if you want to)
• Manage heavy bleeding due to fibroids
• Get in the mood post-hysterectomy
• Find your clitoral legs!
• Deal with burning post-orgasm
• Consider options other than a hysterectomy
• Explore more frequent and intense orgasms with Cliovana & other approaches

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Emeka Menakaya joins Jess & Brandon to talk about how his studies in tantra have opened him up to improved relationships all around. He shares his insights on how cis men can be more vulnerable and open with one another and discusses his spiritual, emotional and sexual journey.

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Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical therapist, co-owner of Royal Fetish Films (an adult film production company), and an adult entertainer. She combines her love of the arts, film and sex education to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to push their sexual boundaries. Jasmine joins Jess and Brandon to share thoughtful insights on her life as a therapist, mother, performer and entrepreneur. She talks about directing porn (including a recent threesome scene starring her life partner, King Noire), the value and appeal of ethical porn, how porn performers balance their own pleasure with the need to perform for the camera, and strategies for staying in the moment when faced with distractions.

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Amira de Vera joins Jess on the podcast this week to share her experience after a breakup with a long term partner at the age of 34. They discuss how she went from lying on the floor crying to feeling happier than ever. Amira opens up to discuss:

• Overcoming the fear of starting over in your 30s
• How to identify what you really want in a partner and relationship
• Multiple approaches to getting over a tough breakup
• The importance of sitting in the pain and using pain to heal
• How to shift from focusing on others to focusing on yourself
• Getting over the idea that you must hit specific milestones by a specific age
• Breaking free of negative spirals
• Amira’s path to self-love
• The role of journaling, therapy, nature, friends, and creativity in healing
• The fallacy of someone “completing” you

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Andre Shakti joins Jess and Brandon to share their journey and story as a stripper, sex worker, educator and activist. They discuss:

• What Andre loves about stripping and what drew her into the strip club in the first place
• How to cultivate intimacy (in person and online)
• Strap-on strategies for beginners
• SANCTUARY, the virtual strip club
• How strippers connect with their clients on a more personal level
• How COVID and digital dates have changed connection for the better
• Creating community for sex workers
• Andre’s experience in the porn industry and prop 60
• STI testing in the porn industry and what we can learn from
• The Bella Thorne OnlyFan debacle

Follow Andre on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. Also check out Andre's weekly advice column on non-monogamy, "I Am Poly(amorous) & So Can You!".

Andre's image was shot by Tristan Crane. 

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• What it's like to live your life and share your love with millions of fans.
• How to build a happily-ever-after relationship.
• How to forgive family, friends and partner after heartache and trauma.
• The importance of creating a shared vision as a couple.
• Her personal formula for self-love.
• How her upbringing affects her relationships.
• How to better manage arguments and deal with triggers.

Follow Jeannie on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter. Also, be sure to check out her Youtube series, Hello Hunnay and podcast, Listen Hunnay!

This podcast is brought to you by Femtasy. 

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Mother-son duo Karen Lee and Cam join Jess and Brandon to share their story of loss, love and podcasting. They chat about:

• Grieving the loss of Karen Lee’s husband and Cam’s dad
• How to have more sex-positive conversations
• How to date with confidence
• Cam’s dating struggles and stories
• How to be more vulnerable with your parents and children
• Leaning into the awkwardness of dating and talking about sex
• How Cam and Karen Lee came together and started this podcast
• How they dealt with the death of Cam’s father together
• How they get over the discomfort and were able to be vulnerable with one another
• How Cam as a young man brought more sensitivity to dating and sex
• Karen Lee's advice as a single woman, getting past the grief from her late husband

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Sexologist Shamyra is back and she’s here to share her knowledge and thoughts on Cardi B’s WAP and so much more including:

• Mysogynoir
• Pick Me culture
• What “Big D” really means
• What we can learn from song lyrics
• How music videos can motivate (or empower) us to be better & live better
• Lube-shaming
• Small penises
• Sexual double standards
• The orgasm gap
• Sexuality & race
• Sex work as real work!

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We’ve compiled some of your questions for Brandon and he weighs in sharing his personal experiences in response to the following:

• You’ve opened up about some heavy feelings on the podcast and talked about the benefits of being more vulnerable. How can I get my boyfriend to open up and be more vulnerable?
• My husband is often too tired for sex. When we have it, he’s full of energy, but I feel like he says no at least 50% of the time. Should I be worried?
• Last week, you said you have no game and that you would never have gotten together with Jess if it had been up to you. I don’t want to let my moment pass me by, so how do I work on my game and my confidence. You’ve also talked about how your confidence has increased over time, so any tips would help.
• My GF listens to your podcast and follows Dr. Jess. She wants to follow in her footsteps, but the idea of her talking about sex with strangers and travelling all around the world doesn’t feel great for...