Adults-Only, Clothing-Optional Resort FAQ Part 2

Continued from Part 1 here...

FAQ: What should men do if they get an erection? "I cover up with a T shirt when tanning and yes it has happened to me. Its not acceptable to touch yourself so "down boy". However it's a consequence of being surrounded by beautiful people so it might give rise to an opportunity for you & your partner to go fool around." - Brian & Kath, Vancouver "Depends on how you got the erection, if it is for the right reasons, use it!! Otherwise, just excuse yourself discreetly. I don’t really think an erection will offend anyone!" - Jesse & Jenny, Mercersburg "Nothing to worry about! It happens to the best of us, and it is nothing to be embarrassed about. We recommend that you just roll over on your stomach for a while, or cover up with a towel until the “situation” subsides." - Desire Resorts

FAQ: Will we be encouraged to swing? "No, not at all. People are not pushy at all. Especially if they understand the lifestyle." - Brent & Dani, Atlanta "The resort is not technically a ‘swinger’ resort so there are lots of people at the resort who are not lifestyle or who are at different stages of the lifestyle. The swingers will ask if you are lifestyle or interested in the lifestyle, but no one will pressure you to do anything you do not want to do." - Jesse & Jenny, Mercersburg "We have never felt pressured by anyone at Desire to do anything we didn't want to do. We have been over 10 times and have always had an unforgettable experience."- Sean & Hanna, Toronto

FAQ: If we are not into the swinging lifestyle but don’t want to always say “no”, what do we do? "You will not have to say no per se. Swingers are also lovely people who may just want to chat with like-minded adults." - Stephanie, Montreal "Stop hanging out in the playroom at the disco is probably a good start. Ha ha! Actually we have not seen people asked outright & repeatedly when they are not showing interest, as most others recognize that there needs to be some strong signals before asking. If a couple is not indicating that they are interested, then it is not very likely that they will be asked." - Brian & Kath, Vancouver "You don't have to be in the lifestyle to go to Desire. There are many nudists and also people who just like being in a sexually charged environment." - Sean & Hanna, Toronto "Do only what you are comfortable with. No one is going to push you. It's a judgment free zone and everyone is there to have fun. If you don’t feel like partaking, if it perfectly fine to sit it out." - Jesse & Jenny, Mercersburg "In the swinger lifestyle “no thank you” is both polite and honest. There is no need to go into explanations, if you are not interested just say no." - Desire Resorts

FAQ: Is there a lot of sex going on openly?

"Sex is not permitted in public areas. However, our resorts have designated areas such as our Jacuzzi Lounge and Sin Room where couples can openly engage in sexual encounters." - Desire Resorts "Only around the jacuzzi and in the play room at the disco. Otherwise you will not see nor hear people having sex, unless you stick your ear to rooms’ doors, you naughty naughty! But you will see a lot of couples kissing and cuddling all over the resort, all the time." - Stephanie, Montreal "There is some by the jacuzzi lounges in the beds and in the disco play rooms, but other than that no. It's not "in your face" all the time. If you want to find it, you can and it will probably be in someone's room." - Brent & Dani, Atlanta

FAQ: Why come to Desire over any other clothing-optional resort? "Because you like the best in everything. Best food, best amenities, best service." - Stephanie, Montreal "We go to Desire because of the staff, the food, and the sexy atmosphere. Even though we go fully nude the entire time by the pool/beach, we like that it is optional. Some of the same staff has been there every year we've been (8 years in a row). The food is top notch and always good. The drinks are wonderful. But, it is mainly the atmosphere and staff. They are great." - Brent & Dani, Atlanta "The sexy vibe, romantic ambiance, professional staff, exotic dining, a focus on couples reconnecting, and the chance to immerse your lover in erotic adventure. " - Brian & Kath, Vancouver "We have been on tons of vacations and Desire by far is the most upscale, classy and cleanest resort we have ever been to." - Sean & Hanna, Toronto "Desire Resorts are the pioneer resorts of the adult only, couples-only, clothing-optional concept in the Mexican Caribbean. Our small, boutique-like resorts are the perfect options for those seeking to enjoy freedom from conventional environments, with a sexy and sensual atmosphere, making them the perfect choice for a mind-blowing vacation in a privileged location." - Desire Resorts

FAQ: Are photographs allowed on the resort? "There is a photographer at the resort who can make a beautiful album of your couple. It can be as naughty or romantic as you want." - Stephanie, Montreal "Photos with cameras, cellphones or videotaping in public areas are STRICTLY FORBIDDEN." - Desire Resorts

FAQ: What is the security like on the property? "There is security in the lobby and always out by the beach. You can find them if you need them but they are not always visible." - Brent & Dani, Atlanta "Excellent and with a large staff who are mindful of their guest's privacy, the security is there but not with a highly visible uniform presence or authoritative way." - Brian & Kath, Vancouver "There is a privately contracted security company on the premises 24-hours a day." - Desire Resorts  

FAQ: What is the dress code like in restaurants? "Dress to impress, dress to feel gorgeous, dress for you and your mate." - Stephanie, Montreal "The dress code varies based on the restaurant. It's from very casual (buffet) to very formal. Just no nudity when eating." - Brent & Dani, Atlanta "In the evenings it is elegant & sexy. The ladies are glamorous & the guys try hard to keep up. Dress pants & shoes with a nice shirt for the men compliments a ladies sexy dress or outfit." - Brian & Kath, Vancouver "The dress code in the restaurants is casual for the most part. Women are usually wearing dresses and men wearing linen pants or khakis. Nothing super formal." - Jesse & Jenny, Mercersburg "Clothing is NOT optional in any of our restaurants. For dress code information, click on your desired hotel: Desire or Desire Pearl" - Desire Resorts