Basic Hand Job Tips

As part of my initiation into the field of international sexology, I hosted the first set of human sexuality workshops at Desire Resort and Spa this month and they were a huge success. Participants were mostly couples, but a few singles attended the Hand Job session armed with a handy cucumber for practice. I had planned to provide dildos, but was warned that I may not make it through Mexican customs with 50 silicone penises. Given the red-light, green-light selection process at the Cancun airport Customs desk, I'm glad I was forewarned.

As promised, I share a few techniques from the workshop below. Bear in mind that the best sex is always subjective and these are just a few ideas to get you started...or keep you coming. Play with these a little, change their names and adapt them to suit what feels best for you.

Basic hand job tips:

1. Change positions often to avoid cramping.
2. Use lots and lots of lube. Check out www.GoodVibes.com for a yummy selection of the good stuff.
3. Apply lube with your mouth, fingertips or breasts.
4. Remove all jewellery and ensure nails are smooth and trimmed.
5. Use at least two hands to pay attention to all the sensitive parts:

• Coronal ridge (rim between the head and shaft)
• Frenulum (tissue on underside of penis that connects head to foreskin)
• Head/glans Shaft Perineum (space between scrotum/testicles and anus)
• Testicles/scrotum Foreskin Bulb (can be massaged through perineum)
• Bum hole and Prostate (massaged through perineum or through the anus)

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